Zimbabwe domestic violence accounts for more than 60% of murder cases that go through the High Court in Harare.
In China 66% of suicides in women had been victims of domestic violence.
½ of women who die from homicides worldwide are killed by husband/partner.
In France 25,000 women are raped per year.
7th, Category of Abusive Men as per Lundy Bancroft
Rambo
These are what the abusive man thinks!
Rambo; he likes to think he’s a man's man. Large muscles; he also believes that strength and aggression is good. Any compassion or conflict resolution is very wrong. You cannot reason with him, he is right. He likes to put fear into others as well as his partner; he will never back down from an argument, even creating situations to show off his muscles. He believes that the women is inferior, fragile and needs protecting.
He is homophobic, and showing any feelings especially fear/grief has to be avoided at all costs.
Anything female, and homophobic is substandard. They are there to serve the man like a slave.
Men cannot hit a woman, that’s for gays. BUT, he can hit his partner to bring her back in line to what he wants.
Women are to be shown off like an award. They have to behave and look how he wants them too.
Common statements he might make:
“You’re only here to look after me.”
“If you did as I said, I wouldn’t hit you.”
“What you looking at?”
This type of abuser can be a sociopath or psychopath – but not always, they are very dangerous people to be involved with.
My 1st ex was homophobic and would deride me for being inferior to him. He would also ask anyone passing by "what you looking at?" causing an incident. He would blame me for him hitting me; "you shouldn't have done that, if you didn't I wouldn't have hit you. It's all your fault."
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